Ok! So here is a situation.
I am into a relationship with this guy, it has been now almost 5 years but inside my head, I can feel that things are not the same as they use to be.
We are smiling, we give hugs, we share things but still inside my heart I know, I am not feeling the same and later I realized he is also on the same page with me.
But
Still, we continue to pretend and act like the perfect couple, he is moving to another city, I see him online in Whatsapp for 1 hour, 2 hours, 3 hours but I don't get a single message now from him but yes I do get an immediate good night once I ask "hey! You had dinner?"
"Yes! I hope You had too, I am too tired, I think I 'll sleep now".
"Oh! ok, Good night take care" with a smile in the end
And, let me tell you the same implies on me, its not just him.
Every night now before sleeping I decide, tomorrow morning I will tell him that things are not working out between us and we should move on now in good terms, but let me tell you one interesting thing we both are loyal to each other, we are not seeing any other guy/girl so ideally, it's not a relationship betrayal because of the third person. (just in case one of the major reasons for most of the breakups out there)
But still, we are fooling each other which is equal to betrayal because we are hiding the very root of relationship and questing the trust factor.
We can sense the storm or maybe not, we can sense the tension of not getting separated but hiding the very thought of separation.
At this time I m not tensed because I ll lose him, I am more tensed because we will drag this and we will be Entangled In Our Minds now and every time, every day and every moment.
One fine day we decided to speak our hearts out and suddenly our minds are free.
We can feel that adrenal rush not because of this breakup but because we gathered the courage to face the reality, we are not shedding a tear maybe because we felt it but we were not able to say it , which in itself is the wrong deed in our relationship, hiding the true feeling.