Saturday, 6 April 2019

Marriage (Women)-Myth/Fact

MYTH: As a girl turns 20 parents, relatives, neighbors, aunties, uncles in short every single individual in this world suddenly making realize her parents that she is an adult now and ready for marriage as she will grow old her charm, demands, beauty, mind will start going out of control by getting influence of the changing society


I am turning 22, going to complete my studies in 2 months but wait I am not only completing my studies but a huge bullet shot is coming for me.
Yes! you heard me right I am the target
I am the latest target of this audience who needs to be entertained irrespective of the fact What I want or What are my plans or what are my dreams but no a big no because they want a big fat wedding a topic to discuss with mom ,brother, sister, uncle, cousin, in-laws ,grandparents , neighbours , colleagues and every single person in this world they know.

And what is the reason??
"SHOW OFF"
"GOSSIP"
"IMPROVE RELATIONS"
"EGO"
. . . . . . . and the list is long.

"So I met a boy today. He is an engineer working at Pune earning a package of 18 lakh.
The family is also not that advanced but they are simple and don't use much mind"

"I think you should talk to the boy once, can't miss such chances very rare people can get such boy.
He is smart, intelligent, practical as per my analysis"

In anger "but dad I am just 22. Do you know what are you talking about I AM JUST 22."

( a long pause)... " Hmmmmm"
"Your mom was 18 and I was 22 but see how the situations are so perfect we will be free from all liabilities at the age of 50
we are free now"

My inner volcano is ready to erupt but I cant as he will be hurt "hmm ok "



REALITY: I am about to complete my degree and further I want to purchase each and everything with my own money.
I am not against you people papa Mumma but I just want little time so that I can do as my wish.
I am very well aware that with my habits 28-30 is the perfect time for pregnancy.
25 is the perfect age to get married with all sexual drives, knowing people, handling families, handling husband, knowing the world.

But right now I don't even know, the boy proposing just want to use my body or genuinely so-called love me.
If I pick a fight I can't control my words which will impact the family
I don't have to prove you, neighbors, aunties, uncles or anyone
I just want to do a job, travel, paint, sing, dance, shop for my satisfaction. I want to purchase a fossil watch, not for showoff but for a self-satisfaction of becoming an independent woman
I do not know how to adjust but with my determination of doing something in life, I just need your support in terms of giving me time


                                                                     The world is coming like a wave
                                                            every wave in my ears are tearing me apart
                                                            but still, I have a boat and know how to sail
                                                                             I can fly without fear
                                                        but that emotional trauma on them I can't bear
                                                                I am not ready to give up my vagina
                                                               and I will first achieve what I deserve
                                                     Irrespective of all drama but without insulting you 
                                                                                    because
                                                                                  I LOVE YOU




Disclaimer:  The above views do not or shall not contain a professional view but a common view which is different for everyone. This view is not responsible for any rebel or dangal in any home at any point of time.